tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post5194927150061211539..comments2023-05-11T03:24:28.125-06:00Comments on A Fallacious Comedy: Post Date Blinks: Women are confusing.Not the Herohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01560658711479024512noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-9872810052005751342012-10-19T08:45:22.823-06:002012-10-19T08:45:22.823-06:00I agree with Haven. You are still getting to know ...I agree with Haven. You are still getting to know her and the fact that you are aware and thoughtful in your plans and treatment of her says a lot right there. If she doesn't give you feedback on compliments and such, she still hears and appreciates your positive words, she just may not have the confidence to directly address them or tell you she appreciates them. <br />The most important thing is that you are being genuine with your efforts and not just trying to say/do the right things or things you think you should be doing. Being sincere really shows through and even if it's not something that's her "thing", she will start to trust your efforts and appreciate them. Random Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494483624821880838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-4395391007345033982012-10-18T14:57:06.625-06:002012-10-18T14:57:06.625-06:00Awww. Don't feel bad. If you'd said, "...Awww. Don't feel bad. If you'd said, "I really do not understand women nearly as well as I thought I did..." and stopped there, then you'd be really far behind. We may all have the same type of genitals, but we are in fact individual people with our own likes and interests. <br /><br />Admitting there's a problem is the first step to solving a problem ;) <br /><br />How long have you been seeing her? How well do you really know her? <br /><br />The Notebook can be your favorite movie, but if you've had a lot of heartbreak in the past... as you well know opening up isn't easy, and she may just feel like it's too soon for mushy. <br /><br />Women have their own social programming fears. One of them being that if we admit to all that cute romantic stuff it'll scare guys away. <br /><br />Confidence is good. People always like to wonder why "all the pretty girls date jerks". It's not because we like jerks. It's because jerks exude confidence. <br /><br />Compliments, even if she doesn't acknowledge them /out loud/, are still good. She just may not know how, may not agree, or may not be used to them. Who knows. Don't stop those! Just make sure they're genuine and not forced because you feel you have too. <br /><br />Really just be you. Don't rush things. And pay attention to what she says, especially if it doesn't seem important. Guys like to latch onto the big things as important. Women notice the details. Pay attention to the details! If you do that, you'll notice the things that she really wants without having to guess. <br /><br />And give yourself some credit. You're still getting to know this woman! There is no way at all you can know every step perfectly. That you're worried about it shows you care though. And if things go well, down the line, the mushy hot chocolate is going to be a funny story you two laugh about. <br /><br />Havenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06219816721347558501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-85022332112156179312012-10-18T13:09:35.277-06:002012-10-18T13:09:35.277-06:00Stop listening to dating advice columns would be m...Stop listening to dating advice columns would be my advice.Tokennoreply@blogger.com