tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post2074675008033312585..comments2023-05-11T03:24:28.125-06:00Comments on A Fallacious Comedy: What the fuck Wednesday: What the fuck do I want?Not the Herohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01560658711479024512noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-26881694552124022222011-10-03T03:52:31.257-06:002011-10-03T03:52:31.257-06:00I like this post a lot. And bonus points for you ...I like this post a lot. And bonus points for you wanting to give orgasms AND more orgasms. That's awesome!Mylihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14966674814107503680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-53635222847637517382011-09-15T08:16:26.423-06:002011-09-15T08:16:26.423-06:00Great post, I love the fact that you also wrote wh...Great post, I love the fact that you also wrote what you are willing to give. I know what you mean about all women wanting children; I don't want to have children but it seems to be the main interest in women over 25. I'm 24 now but almost every woman that I know wants to get married, is already married and is expecting a child, or will get married and hopes to have a thousand babies. <br />However, like others before me have said, it can be difficult to find a woman who is absolutely sure that she doesn't want to have babies, perhaps she will freak out one day and decide to stop taking the pill or put a hole in your condom.<br />I also don't agree with the fact that all women will feel this urge to have babies, I think that's just a myth. <br />PS: i deleted my previous comment because it had some mistakesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18236191571382668663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-20168608383279882182011-09-15T06:52:46.049-06:002011-09-15T06:52:46.049-06:00figuring out what you want and what you want to gi...figuring out what you want and what you want to give is huge!! I'm proud of you for the amount of time and work that you have put into deciding what is really important and what you want to be able to provide. That's quality. I don't care what anyone says about you....Random Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494483624821880838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-22858739900537897092011-09-15T04:55:34.479-06:002011-09-15T04:55:34.479-06:00Damn just when I thought you were the ONE for me! ...Damn just when I thought you were the ONE for me! Sorry my lovely but I want a watermelon popping ouy of my vag! <br /><br />That is a great idea doing a list. I once wrote out a list like this and put it in a safe place - you are meant to send it out to the universe and the man of your dreams will be sent to you! Hasn't worked yet or the Royal Mail is playing up again!Sophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13065108294902440635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-33651392762553885132011-09-14T19:00:56.329-06:002011-09-14T19:00:56.329-06:00I was waiting for biology to tell me to have kids....I was waiting for biology to tell me to have kids. It never did. Hubs got bait-n-switched by his practice wife after a long time together. He didn't believe me that I didn't want kids until I told him to get a vasectomy. It's a good list. Nothing too superficial. It may be hard to find her, but it's worth waiting for. I've just about decided to adopt you as my little brother, btw. Proud of you, little brother.Natashahttp://voicesindahead.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-9994348394298054812011-09-14T16:15:47.700-06:002011-09-14T16:15:47.700-06:00<----27 yr old female who doesn't and can n...<----27 yr old female who doesn't and can not have children. We do exist so don't lose hope. Especially now that you know exactly what you want.Rebeccccccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05518977239247485357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-90637670048689288312011-09-14T14:50:59.729-06:002011-09-14T14:50:59.729-06:00This should be your profile. I mean, honesty is t...This should be your profile. I mean, honesty is the best policy, right?<br /><br />Sounds like your ideal girl is my current gf. You can't have her. Go away. =PAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993699573170596587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-10371959809117141902011-09-14T14:31:43.119-06:002011-09-14T14:31:43.119-06:00Damn... Maxwell beat me with the 'deal breaker...Damn... Maxwell beat me with the 'deal breakers' question! Seriously, shorten your list to what is absolutely essential and what you'll trade on. It will help.<br /><br />There's nothing wrong with not wanting kids, whatever your reasons, selfish or not, but as many women do, be up front about it when it comes up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-45786823526717390122011-09-14T14:24:14.730-06:002011-09-14T14:24:14.730-06:00I was so happy (fucking elated?) to have found a m...I was so happy (fucking elated?) to have found a man that didn't want kids. I feel the same way you do on the matter. Also, way to go with the giving of orgasms on your list. You're a fine man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-57882636198719039592011-09-14T13:39:38.705-06:002011-09-14T13:39:38.705-06:00I think your list is rad. Knowing what you want an...I think your list is rad. Knowing what you want and making sure your partner is on same page is smart. Not everyone wants to have kids and there is no shame in that!<br />Love your blog by the way.<br />JessJesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15625332739989691200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-47648985177371890592011-09-14T10:55:19.361-06:002011-09-14T10:55:19.361-06:00That's a great list Hero, I especially love th...That's a great list Hero, I especially love the point about the Woman For You having passion about something, I think that's great. I'm super happy you found it helpful to write all that out - I know I sure did!<br /><br />I agree with Maresi that finding a gal who is SURE she doesn't want to have kids is potentially a tricky one, however I know they exist. Your clarity from the start will certainly help weed out the gals with whining uteruses.<br /><br />Can't wait to hear more about this!! And thanks so much for the shout out :)<br /><br />KellyKellyhttp://myjoyproject.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-89875680961816545582011-09-14T09:45:26.808-06:002011-09-14T09:45:26.808-06:00I think knowing what you want is good. Knowing wh...I think knowing what you want is good. Knowing what you have to offer is great, seriously. <br /><br />I have to say that as a mother of two kids who exited my uterus via my vag, the 2nd one in a particularly high speed delivery, it really, truly is meant to happen that way, physically. I've had zero lasting physical effects from childbirth. But I really think that's the least of your worries, isn't it? <br />I totally agree, birthing and raising kids isn't for everyone. I hope you find a woman who won't pull a bait & switch, and that will be difficult. Some women will ignore that urge (and it is a true biological thing that can't be suppressed forever in many if not most women) but then succumb to it, and it's too late, she's already married to a dude who doesn't want kids, ever. <br />But, like I told Maxwell the other day, now our kids are old enough to bring us the remote and food from the fridge, and to put their own laundry away. Parenting does have perks.Maresihttp://www.twitter.com/maresibnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-85839889136130632982011-09-14T09:41:35.083-06:002011-09-14T09:41:35.083-06:00So, are all these deal breakers? Or are some of th...So, are all these deal breakers? Or are some of them "nice to haves"? <br /><br />And, again, I could have written this post... damn it... *eyes you suspiciously*Maxwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13347298963669062917noreply@blogger.com