tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post1797354812564542971..comments2023-05-11T03:24:28.125-06:00Comments on A Fallacious Comedy: What the Fuck Wednesday: IrksomeNot the Herohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01560658711479024512noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-51902660863972671362011-10-26T16:19:08.771-06:002011-10-26T16:19:08.771-06:00There are books written (with a female audience in...There are books written (with a female audience in mind) that suggest that women not date anyone who tries to make plans at the last minute. If we expect that from men, you should be able to expect that of her. Good for you for trying but also for NOT waiting around for her. Making plans in advance is just a part of dating and if she can't then she isn't really interested in dating right now. You did good though. It's not easy to ask people out but it's really the only way to figure out if they are interested.Alliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07192238665023853080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-5075265829637234142011-10-26T16:16:52.064-06:002011-10-26T16:16:52.064-06:00In my limited and unscientific experience/opinion ...In my limited and unscientific experience/opinion I have to say that I've never called a guy I was honestly and truly interested in with one hours notice. I have called booty calls/friends/etc when I had nothing else to do and plans fell through and I was bored. <br /><br />It is possible that you just attract a very odd type of women but in my experience if my friends or I are interested in a man we give more than an hours notice and make sure to set up plans if we want to see him regularly. Just saying...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-27058388577328614882011-10-26T15:13:17.187-06:002011-10-26T15:13:17.187-06:00I'm glad I'm married so I don't have t...I'm glad I'm married so I don't have to put up with that bullshit!Workingdanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00431559781969929972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-34215614467357411212011-10-26T13:43:28.785-06:002011-10-26T13:43:28.785-06:00I wish women were easier to figure out, for your s...I wish women were easier to figure out, for your sake. Truly, I do. I still think you did the right thing.<br />I'm sorry it wasn't accompanied by a Yes, a fist bump, and another reverse piggy back hug.Maresihttp://twitter.com/maresibnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-4919966610162040642011-10-26T12:21:03.896-06:002011-10-26T12:21:03.896-06:00I would give her benefit of doubt since this situa...I would give her benefit of doubt since this situation is a bit different as she works at night. If you work 9 - 5, then night time is your free time. <br /><br />For her, its probably the daytime that is her free time. Plus, with a bar its not M-F but can be random nights +weekend so imo tends to make it hard to schedule. Still say go for it man!ipenkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16836090393033706793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-50068562736205296052011-10-26T12:03:02.075-06:002011-10-26T12:03:02.075-06:00hmm, it sounds like these girls are into you but m...hmm, it sounds like these girls are into you but may be multi-tasking if you know what I mean... I usually pull the non-comittal plan answer if I having something else pending or hope to.Random Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494483624821880838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-66429392441059475872011-10-26T11:56:01.787-06:002011-10-26T11:56:01.787-06:00Bitches be crazy, man...
I've personally neve...Bitches be crazy, man...<br /><br />I've personally never had that problem. Mind you, I am that problem, since I don't like making plans because I can't predict my mood several days in advance. Will I feel like wearing pants that evening? I just don't know!!!<br /><br />Advice? Do what you're doing. I think you're doing well with this.Maxwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15473164561879799425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-68433309042711671492011-10-26T11:51:03.374-06:002011-10-26T11:51:03.374-06:00Yeah, I'm speechless. Well, not technically, b...Yeah, I'm speechless. Well, not technically, but wow. I know that I missed signs once that someone I'd been hanging out with was actually asking me out. But it does sound really flaky. I would say I was busy if I didn't want to go. Or I would plan around the date. I can't imagine leaving things open like that. I'm sorry.Natashahttp://voicesindahead.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-118659272049199363.post-60288487673553494772011-10-26T10:58:19.341-06:002011-10-26T10:58:19.341-06:00It's either a gentle way of saying 'fuck o...It's either a gentle way of saying 'fuck off' or she actually means she doesn't know. She might be hoping to pick up a shift for the money she might be needing. <br /><br />Women are complex... your 'go for it' moment may have passed back when she threw her legs round it. A few days have passed since then with no attempt at contact and you then ask her out as an afterthought as you are leaving? Might not be how you saw it, but might be what she saw... <br /><br />She might need a bit more pursuing, or she might need you to seem disinterested...<br /><br />She might just have thought about it and decided no... so many possibilities, that's what makes each of us unique.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com